Your life is in your own hands, and it should be your own responsibility to choose and decide how you’re going to work for the kind of life you want to live. Have no doubt about that you’ll have to work for the kind of life you want to live.
Everyone is different from everyone else, you are different from everyone, your responsibilities are also different. The life you would like to live will also be different in scope, socially and financially. At present your life may be in a bad state of affair, and so, you will have to take it upon yourself to do what you have to do to make your life better than it is either socially or financially.
Some people are authoritative doctrinaire with distorted dogmatic views and opinions who feels they know better about you than you should be about yourself. Some people will feel they know what is right and good for you to do. Be aware those people may not know as much as they profess they know, and they don’t realise or aware that they don’t know that they don’t know. Sound confusing, that’s how those people will make your life. Unless a what someone is telling you is good for you and will contribute to your overall well-being, you really don’t have to do what that person, or persons are telling you to do.They may not have done anything worthwhile for them to show that they know about what they are telling you to do. Probably they haven’t accomplished as much as you, or have had the amount, or the kind of experiences you have. Therefore, don’t follow them and do what they are telling you to do, else you will end up loosing and getting nowhere.
Even if you love someone, don’t allow that person to control your life and dictate what is right and good for you to do. Never allow anyone to run your life the way he or she might think is better for you. It might be better for that person, but it may not be that good for you.
Never allow anyone to make decisions that you should make for yourself, especially decisions that will affect your whole life.
Never allow anyone to make you feel you’re incompetent or worthless. Some partners and other people will make you feel you’re incompetent or worthless to make their egos feel good and to have some control over you. Know that you have the same amount of potential and abilities as everyone else, possible extra, but you’ll have to use what you have to prove you are capable of running your life in your own way.
You have a brain to think for yourself, hands to do things, and you are free to do things you would like to do, so why should you allow anyone else do those things for you, possible you could do better, unless you are lazy. For achieving great and wonderful feat, and to prove people wrong, keep doing positive things efficiently. Awaken and unshackled your brain and mind power, release your potential and creative skills.
Don’t take advice from people who are not doing anything, or from those who haven’t achieved anything, neither of those people haven’t been successful. Never take advice from anyone who haven’t failed in doing anything. That is because, anyone who hasn’t done anything, or had no failure or success, or haven’t been anywhere tell you who are trying and doing things what you should do to become successful. Ask yourself this, if the person who’s telling you what to do aren’t that successful, or haven’t done anything of consequence, do you really believe they can tell you how to become successful. Then why he or she aren’t doing what they are telling you to do to become success them self? Why isn’t that person having great success? They may not realize they are a failure.
Anyone who has never done anything successfully and have failed a few times, that person can’t teach you much about how to succeed after you’ve failed, nor how to make a success out of failure. There isn’t much an unsuccessful person can tell a successful person about achieving success.
People have a mouth to speak, so they can say anything, they can tell you anything but that don’t mean they know everything, or better than you. People can make you all kinds of promises, but that doesn’t mean they will keep their promise, or will give you what they’ve promised.
Many people have much advice to give to other people, some people have a lot of time to get into other people’s affair while their affairs are in a very bad state. Should you take on the advice what some people say is right for you, you’ll be following advice that will not get the rewards you need. Some people are going nowhere, so they can’t take you anywhere. If you follow certain people who aren’t going anywhere, you’ll be lead astray, and away from the path you should follow to fulfil your dreams. You won’t be able to achieve your desired objectives. Following people who are going nowhere, you will certainly end up getting nowhere.
Don’t follow people who are only catching at straws and shadows. You will end up like the dog that grabs at the shadow of a bigger bone and ends up losing probably what was his dinner.
Sometimes it can appear life isn’t moving forward or in the direction, you want it to go, so you listen to anyone and take on all kinds of advice some good, some bad. Don’t be stubborn and refuse to listen to the people who are encouraging and giving you good advice. Take all the good advice. Take good ideas, good views, and good opinions and use them for fulfilling your dreams.
At times it will feel you are stuck in a rut, and you may find it hard to get out of that rut. It can seem futile to keep fighting and struggling, on the other side, no condition is static.Even when it appears there’s no way out of the struggle, never give up or give in to those feelings, that is because life isn’t at a standstill, and so no situation is permanent. Your’s, and everyone’s life and everything is in constant motion. Life and situation is changing and moving in one direction or another, as well as they’re adapting to the changes that are occurring. That means you should never succumb to the worst situation in life, and let life sweep you along in any unsatisfying situation. Never allow life or anyone to dish out to you whatever they feel like.
See the changes that are taking place, accept them, then either go with them or add some kind of input to make the kind of change you want. You may have to adapt to some changes, but be certain it’s the kind of changes you desire and require.
Again, you are an extraordinary unique individual with abilities to make certain positive changes in your life. And, when you work for achievements the possibilities for achieving your goals and for having good results is achievable.
Sometimes, when trying to fulfil goals, you should take a step back and look at the choice you should make to see if they are right or wrong, and what will be the consequences. At the same time don’t allow anyone to dictate to you and decide what choice you should make, or tell you that their path is the easiest path you should take. It might be the wrong path. Again, it should be your own choice and decision, and it’s your responsiblity to doing what you have to do to achieve your objectives. kb’s